4.
You are likely to have an affair
You have several indicators that an affair may happen or is about to happen. Without intervention, things are getting dangerously close.
Based on your scores, you are:
Turning away from your partner, rather than toward
When you have fights, they usually go unresolved
You have quite a few secrets
You are finding more support with others outside of the relationship, and may have started thinking about an affair
Your boundaries are slipping fast
It's time to get help soon. Whether or not you choose to have an affair, your relationship needs some help
Here are some quick tips:
Set some very clear boundaries and stop building emotional connections with those who you may have an affair.
Try to keep a 5:1 ratio of positive interactions to negative interactions.
Use statements that state what you feel and what you need, rather than focusing on what your partner isn't doing.
Reach out to a local therapist that specializes in the Gottman or RFT approaches.
Get help from a counselor in person or online: https://margietherapy.com/about-me/
You can get help!